For couples
When you live in the same house but it feels like parallel lives.
Try: “Before the Difficult Conversation” — a 15-minute scaffold for the talks you keep avoiding.
For couples, friends & families
Stay close,
on purpose.
A library of short, research-backed exercises you do together — 5 to 20 minutes, no therapist in the room, no AI in the middle.
Built for the people who matter most — the ones busy life makes you drift away from without meaning to.
- 5–20 min
- Research-backed
- No therapist
- No AI chatbot
- Free to start
No credit card. Cancel anytime.
Built on
Gottman MethodEFTACTIFSNVCAttachment Theoryi.
What it replaces
Avoiding the conversation
A short exercise tonight
Venting to an AI alone
Saying it to each other
A relationship book you won't finish
Five minutes, twice a week
ii.
What an exercise actually looks like
Connection · 5 min · For couples
The Three-Minute Check-In
A structured pause to find out how the other person actually is — not the surface answer.
The five steps
- 1.
Sit facing each other. No phones.
- 2.
Person A asks: “How are you — really?” Person B answers for 90 seconds without interruption.
- 3.
Person A reflects back what they heard in one sentence. No advice, no fixing.
- 4.
Switch roles.
- 5.
Close: each say one thing you're grateful for today.
Closing reflection
“Did you learn something you wouldn't have learned otherwise?”
Every exercise is structured this way: a frame, the steps, a small reflection. No improvising. No “what do we even talk about.”
iii.
Who it's for
For close friends
When the texts get shorter and the catch-ups slip another month.
Try: “Two Truths About Right Now” — three minutes, end the small-talk.
For family
When you talk often enough but rarely about anything that matters.
Try: “What I Notice About You” — appreciation made visible, in ten minutes.
iv.
From the library
5 min
The Three-Minute Check-In
A structured pause to find out how the other person actually is — not the surface answer.
10 min
What I Notice About You
Appreciation becomes invisible when it's assumed. This exercise makes it visible.
15 minPro
Before the Difficult Conversation
A framework for entering a hard conversation without immediately escalating it.
v.
How it works
Pick an exercise
Three free to start. The full library has structured programs for the moments most relationships hit — and grows every week.
Do it together
Five to twenty minutes. A few are solo. Most live or die on the conversation that happens between you.
Invite your partner
When you're ready. Link accounts and unlock the couple-only library — the exercises that need both of you in the room.
On the small things —
“Successful long-term relationships are created through small words, small gestures, and small acts.”
John Gottman, The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work
vi.
Pricing
Free
$0
Three starter exercises. No credit card.
Most chosen
Pro Solo
$9.99/ mo
or $59 a year — two months on us
The full library. Invite your partner whenever it feels right.
Pro Couple
$14.99/ mo
or $99 a year — two months on us
Two linked accounts. The couple-only library opens.
Cancel anytime in one click. Annual billing keeps access until the end of the year.
vii.
Common questions
Is this therapy?
No. wehumanhuman is a structured library of exercises you do with the people in your life. It's not a substitute for therapy, and we don't sit between you. If you need a therapist, please see one.
What if my partner won't do it with me?
Start solo. About a third of the library is designed for one person — to notice your patterns, prepare for a conversation, or write something you'll share later. We've seen partners come along once they read what you wrote.
Do we need to do them at the same time, in the same room?
Most yes — they're built around a shared 5–20 minutes. A growing set are async: you each do your part on your own time, then a prompt brings the answers together when you're both ready.
What if we run out of things to say?
That's the point of the structure. Every exercise has steps, prompts, and a built-in close. If a step feels stuck, the next one moves you forward. You're never staring at a blank page.
Can I cancel?
Anytime, in one click. Pro is monthly or annual; cancellation takes effect at the end of the period and you keep access until then.
How long until we'll feel a difference?
Most people notice the shift in the first week — usually after exercise two or three. The research base (Gottman, EFT) is built on small repeated rituals over months, so the deeper change is a habit, not an event.
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